Today the pain got too much 17-Feb-09

Today the pain got too much - WINZ client 323-170-397

Principal Richard Coutt,
Attn – Minister Bennett – Please add to our current discussions re WINZ refusing to recognise our **Equal Parenting** Orders which has destroyed our FAMILY.

CC, Keith (Key in your envelope)
CC, WINZ – Case worker – Email and hand delivered 18thFeb09
CC, Dr. Matti

Tuesday 17th Feb 09

Today I walked from my part-time School Job.

I have mostly enjoyed my time at the school and will miss much of it.

I thank-you Richard for giving me the opportunity to help fund Javan’s (Now 13) **Equal Parenting**.

WINZ have never recognised those FAMILY Court Orders and thus I saw the job as a way to save the **Equal Parenting** of Javan and thus tolerated the pain I was often in.

That ended up being a lie from WINZ as my income is now less than when you gave me the opportunity.

However today, as many days, was not good

I went to work with reflux pain and a degree of angina, even though I had had no breakfast which is what I do to help control at least the reflux.

Usually waiting to have breakfast until I get back home about 1045

I had already taken my normal pills, but it was not enough.

I took 2 more and Angina spray on the way to work.

Things subsided a bit

I got out of the car to be greeted by **Come and see me after you have done the fields**

I did the normal things I do, needing more pills and spray about half way around, opened school gates, put out football post protectors, picked up rubbish and lost property that I found on the way around.

Put the tractor away, emptied rubbish, put lost property in the appropriate place.

Went off to find the boss who had said he wanted to see me.

Well he moaned (His words) at me about a few things.

Apparently I was meant to vacuum Rm 5/6 toilets which I did not hear him say the day before and I told him that.

He also pointed out some plant rubbish which he informed me I had left out since Friday.

I reminded him that both days he had given me tasks which left me no time to finish what I was doing

He seemed to accept my explanation and we went about our normal tasks, a bit ruffled.

I got on with blowing the areas I had worked on the previous day as normal.

Jobs I can only do up till 0830

Keith came up to me and told me not to do what I was doing and to go and pick up the rubbish that had been left from the day before.

What I was doing was part of that and to do it his way was to do the job twice and of course would mean leaving the area I had worked on yesterday untidy for another day.

He informed me that the rubbish truck was coming at half past 9 which I already knew.

It was currently about 0815 so I had plenty of time having planned what I was doing the day before.

By now things were getting pretty heated between us and I told him to stick his job as his organising costs me time I don’t have and came home.

Sad really but inevitable.

I can’t work with the pain and the current system

My Doctor has given me several notices that I should not be working or mowing my own lawns which WINZ have sighted

It takes me 7/8 goes to do my own lawns because the reflux pain simply gets to much.

As I understand things I have 12hrs credit from way before Christmas when working extra hours requested by Mr Coutts.

I have at least 13 days holiday pay

I expect WINZ to return my benefit to at least the amount paid before I was tricked back to work – WINZ have all appropriate Doctors details.

I enclose the master Key in Keiths envelope

Jim Bailey
6 Lancaster Rd
Beach Haven
North Shore City
Ph 482-2960

18-Nov-08 - Letter Re **Equal Parenting ** Orders Denied sent to New National Govt on the day Cabinet announced

Prime Minister - John Key,

Minister of MSD / WINZ – MP the Hon Paula Bennett

Associate Minister of MSD / WINZ – MP the Hon Turiana Turia,

Minister for Justice – MP the Hon Simon Powers

Minister for Courts – MP – the Hon Georgina toe Heuheu

CC, Minister - MP for Northcote – the Hon Dr. Jonathan Coleman – My local MP.

CC, Manager WINZ – Birkenhead – Bev Butler

18-Nov-08

Ref WINZ clients – 323-170-397 -/- 75-058-829

Firstly,

Congratulations to all six politicians above.

You all restore hope to many who have suffered under 9 years of Labour.

All six of you are aware of the predicament I and no doubt 1000’s of others find themselves in who suffer MSD.

I attach several documents to bring you up to speed in the hope that you will rectify the personal injustices that my Son Javan (Now 13) and I have-/-still suffer. I am well aware that many more than us suffer similar destructive to Family situations and hope for all our sakes all 6 of you can work quickly to change things for the better.

WINZ deny Hard Won **Equal Parenting** Orders

An insult to the National and Maori Ministers for Justice, the Courts, MSD, and the Judges of the Family Court.

I believe deliberate manipulation of Govt Policy to destroy Families by the previous Govt and current Bureaucrats at WINZ Birkenhead?

Today my Son lives full time with his Mother and has open access to me his Father. Because of blatant Sexism within WINZ I am reduced to less than a McDonalds Dad as is covered in the documents attached thru no fault of my Son or mine.

In 1995 my Sons Mother while pregnant with him decided we were not to be together and disappeared.

By late 1997 I with the help of many had established the **Equal Parenting** of our Son thru the Family Court as a self litigant, soon after I gave up using Lawyers.

That, **Equal Parenting** took various shapes to meet all of our needs for the next 3 to 4 years finally settling when he started school. We settled on week about changing over after school and during school holidays on a Monday at 3pm. During Christmas this adjusted to 4 weeks about to allow each Parent longer time with him to travel to extended Family.

It worked very very well with all parties in both Families enjoying Javan and he enjoying them.

THEN during year 2000 I came to terms with massive chest pain – The medical fraternity recognising Heart and Reflux troubles which I had worked around for many years – Like working 3 hours on 3 hours sleeping/resting, eating special foods and powerful pain killers while running and working in my Taxi business and doing as much as I could to help Families in distress.

I still work 3 hours on 3 hours off with the use of Angina spray and powerful anti acids. The medical fraternity has improved my lot heaps. However I am far from fit and should not be forced to work in the terms only WINZ know. Especially as there are no gains other than I see Javan most days as I work at his school.

In year 2000 WINZ finally accepted me onto a Single Persons Invalids Benefit for which I am most grateful. I continued my 3 hours on and 3 hours off Fathering Javan still week about, in fact with the massive help and understanding of the medical fraternity never once missed my **Equal Parenting** responsibilities even though I went thru many procedures etc. The 3 hours on is/was spent in voluntary community work Encouraging, Advocating, McKenzie Friending many toward **Equal Parenting** and hopefully you are all well aware of my politicking toward the same aim.

WINZ HAVE NEVER RECOGNISED our **Equal Parenting** orders and have given Mother ALL the Child related allowances to her knowing full well that Javan lived week about with me. Pure Sexism and I believe feminist motivated staff doing their level best to fund Mother and destroy Father.

This went on for 8 years before I finally gave up and sent him to live full time with his mother.

It is simply not acceptable that MSD-WINZ be able to override the Courts – Javan to this day wants to live week about with each Family and WINZ have made that impossible – Reducing my benefit over many years till I finally took on a part time job to attempt to continue our **Equal Parenting**. Much against the wishes of my Doctor to find WINZ had lied to me and they simply took all of my wages off the top of my benefit – I had been told that the first $100-0 I earnt would not affect my benefit - Nothing has been gained by my working. In fact I work in pain much of the time and not only have the obvious expenses increased such as fuel, clothing, boots, but also medical to help control the pain with extra Angina spray and Mylanta. WINZ are well aware but have not compensated. They are also well aware that my Doctor does not want me to work as I do.

I need to rest, often sleep after my 3 hours work and achieve little of the voluntary work I did before returning to paid work and my tolerance level has reduced to handle the serious task of Fathering my now young teenager at a time when he needs me more than ever.

I ask All of you for a Prime Minister lead - Ministerial inquiry into my situation and all similar others

It is NOT acceptable that WINZ or any other Government Dept can DESTROY a Family.

Much more has been destroyed by WINZ not fully recognising our **Equal Parenting** than I have established here and I am asking for that to be compensated for ASAP so that;

· Javan can have some nice cloths, shoes etc

· Javan can have BOTH his Families and we can return to **Equal Parenting**

· I can participate in his schooling and school needs and clothing

· So that Javan can have his Male needs met

· So that we can have our much needed upgrade of our teeth

· So that we can have our much needed upgrade of our spectacles

· So that we can travel to our relatives

· So that Javan can have male orientated sport of his choice.

· Considering that ALL child allowances have gone to Mother since dot and I have lived well below medical advice since year 2000 it’s a miracle that I am still alive – I simply ask that we be given back some of what we have lost to spend as we see fit to restore those losses

· Considering that BOTH Javan and I want **Equal Parenting** and that he stood his ground many times with the court procedures to prove it. I ask that half of ALL Child Allowances be paid to me until he leaves home equipped to fund his own way forward – If he comes to live with me full time that ALL Child allowances are paid and back paid to me.

· WINZ forced me to destroy my Taxi business and 2 others incomes before they would help me – The business was not at the point of funding me without me working in it – Thus ALL my investment was wasted and still owes $25,000 on top of the loss to a benevolent friend – WINZ have destroyed all chance of financial recovery. You may suggest a way forward.

· Is it time that a Prime Minister Lead inquiry was initiated to examine and recommend changes to ALL Law and Social Policy that negatively affects FAMILY?

I would put myself forward and be well able to recommend others from the **Father Friendly Data-Base? To make this process successful for the Children yet to be born in New Zealand and hopefully Right the Wrongs that current NZFamily Law and Social Policy has caused 1000’s of our Families.

I look forward to your urgent responses

Onward – Jim Bailey

027-429-0055 -/- 09-482-2960

6 Lancaster Rd

Beach Haven

North Shore City

Auckland 0626

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Minister Dyson and her Blind obedient Bureaucrats destroy yet another Dad and Son

Letter sent to Minister Dyson 8-Aug-08

Attention Minister Ruth Dyson

Those that need to know the circumstances that have been forced on us.

Attention David Udy – CEO – so called Child Support

Attention Bev Butler – Manager - WINZ Birkenhead

Attention Richard Coutt – Principal Birkdale Intermediate

Attention Marg Dixon – FC Co-Ordinator – North Shore

Marg for the FC file please, and thanks you have been very helpful over many years

Attention MP Jonathan Coleman

CC, Javan my very dear Son

CC, Lawyer – Rod Hooker

CC, NZHerald

CC, Vicar Lorraine

CC, Pastor Victor

CC, Friends

Another example of NZLaw and NZSocial Policy destroying yet another

dedicated DAD and his Kid/s

Ref;

WINZ 323-170-397 -/- IRD 12-595-093 -/- FAM-1997-044-000099 -/- FP/044/487/96

Dated 7-August-08

On the last day of July-08 I told my Son Javan to leave.

I have sent Javan, now 12 going on 17, to live with his mother or until he chooses to live with me full time or WINZ fully recognise our so called Equal Parenting Orders, before he does something crazy. I want to make it clear that NZLaw and NZSocial Policy has placed this totally unreasonable decision on a 12 year old because it has made Father powerLess.

If Javan chooses to live with me, and I hope he does, he must abide by our well established Family Co-operation chart built by both of us over many years and negotiated quarterly. Yes it can be updated by negotiation.

Javan and I had a terrible argument, worse than others, the night before the last day of July. I have made my mind up to relieve Javan of some of the tension caused through his enforced untenable lifestyle. His mother was unlikely to do that as she has used him to gain her desired lifestyle since before his conception, encouraged by current NZLaw and NZSocial Policy.

To continue our very limited and unreal so called Equal Parenting in time only, with Minister Dyson declaring her determination to block ALL funding leaves me no option but to withdraw from so called Equal Parenting him for the sake of his sanity. The limitations are damaging my Son.

Real Equal Parenting would be the way forward. Labour has blocked that as National did under Jenny Shipley.

I had to act while he was still sane and I retain a measure of health which has not been good lately.

Minister Dyson and her blindly obedient bureaucrats have forced another FatherLess Kid into the Stats

I believe Javan is finally cracking under the strain placed on Kids that change homes weekly or more. That strain is normally far less than the strain caused by separating from either Mum or Dad or living in CYFS care. All three options are all too often State Induced. However in our case the State has refused to honour our Equal Parenting.

I was well able to relieve that strain/tension while working and earning a good income. Particularly as Javan was often in my taxi even in Mums week as we did school runs and other Kid related contracts, etc. He loved it and we built a huge business working a van 24X7 with 3 drivers and many asking for the van with the Kid or Kid seat in it. Thus he had contact with many Kids from single Parent homes, many of whom grew to be friends, especially Javan’s.

In year 2000 I faced up to the pains in my chest and stomach, I believe caused by the shit fight and cost necessary to give my Son his own Father and the injustices discovered on the trip. I was helped by our wonderful medical fraternity but far from healed. I was eventually granted a Single Persons Invalids Benefit because of the clear and obvious documentation after WINZ forced me to destroy our business and fire 2 drivers because it was not yet ready to fund me unless I worked in it. This cost me all my investment and their jobs, simply because of WINZ staff ignorance of regulations separating those that need help from their business.

NOTE one person benefit yet for years in fact since early 97 I had week about Equal Parented Javan. 2 people is it not? WINZ refused to recognise our Family Court Orders. That has placed incredible strain on US. Turning me into a time only Dad who could not even afford the traditional McD’s without limiting my medicine and suggested recovery, causing incredible debt considering our income, while Mum basks in the sun week about on full support of the DPB.

Javan had been steadily getting more difficult for both his Mother and I to handle for some time. The Police being called to an incident between him and his Mother earlier in July

Javan is a fine Kid, I am most proud of him, he is doing very well at school and sport, usually most courteous, easy to love, even cuddly, I want it to stay that way. He is being steadily undermined by the difficulties brought on me because WINZ refused to recognise our Equal Parenting Orders.

Plus he is rather challenged by the lifestyle he sees his Mum leading (Why should he work or earn his pocket money) and is tugged away from his Dad by others in the Morrison Family. Thus WINZ have ABUSED us since mid 2000 by funding one parent to the detriment of the other and thus driven an imbalance which is driving our Son crazy. (Recently endorsed by Ruth Dyson) while fully funding Mother on the DPB for a job (Parenting) she does less than ½ the work and shirked as many bills as possible.

Now WINZ and Minister Ruth Dyson have made a huge fuss of me thumping a desk to highlight the 8 years of their ABUSE that they have dished out to us while downplaying their 8 years of ABUSE, in fact not even recognising it.

My parents left us a small legacy a few years back and that helped things for a while and funded much activism in my/our attempts and naive hope to gain Equal Parenting as the basis of NZLaw and NZSocial Policy in time to save our Son from this horrible path NZLaw and NZSocial Policy has forced on him and 1000’s of others. Without our legacy this current state induced situation would have been forced on us years ago.

It amazes me that Javan and I lasted so long under these state induced abusive circumstances.

Thanks Lord and to those who tried to help

Minister Dyson and her blindly obedient bureaucrats have forced another FatherLess Kid into the Stats

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On the last day of July-08 I told Javan to leave

He had come to me for a cuddle at about 0600

I asked him to leave – Hardest thing I have ever done

He dressed and attempted to make lunch

I stopped him doing that - awful

He took his bag and began to walk to school

I soon followed and passed him as I work at the same school

He came home after school

I told him he was not welcome – Even harder

He asked to use the phone as he did not want to go to mums, five minutes walk away

I would not allow him in our home and told him to go to his Mums as she is paid to look after him

Javan will hate me until he understands

Bureaucracy will demand its pound of flesh and know doubt steal more Fathering $Dollars from me.

Those wanting to destroy Men and their Families will take full advantage of Anti-Family NZLaw and NZSocial Policy

I will hate what I have had to do until he understands and I will hate those who have caused this now 13 year battle that is far from finished to give Javan his own Dad.

Please forgive me Lord

I don’t envy those who caused the battle when he discovers the truth

I think he is well on the way to that and that is what is causing him to be difficult

The know-it-alls have told me its just teenage stuff

I know my boy and it’s far more than that

I love you my Son

I hate to do this

You don’t deserve it

Fare ye well for now

I have asked and will keep asking the Holy Spirit to hover over you and protect you forever as I know he will

Keep trusting him in the name of Jesus

Dad

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Minister Dyson and her blindly obedient bureaucrats have forced another FatherLess Kid into the Stats

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